[ENG] ??? ??? Sunhwa cut Marriage Not Dating EP 10
No marriage can work out smoothly without the truth love. Ki Tae wanted to be a happy bachelorI guess with the beauty and sweet look of Jang Mi, maybe, Ki Tae may change his mind to continue being a bachelor.
The problem is, will Ki Tae can fall in love with Jang Mi? Looking forward to watch episode 2, I really wonder will Ki Tae will really fall in love with Jang Mi? Just finished watching epi 1 with eng sub at gooddrama first i was reluctant to watch the drama since the lead actor was the seducer of the girl in When the Man Loves but in this drama he is just lovable and quite handsome and the girl is innocently sweet surely i will follow this drama.
Omo this drama was not on my watch list,just watched it out of curosity. Its so intersting,han groo so cute,loved her styling so sweet and pretty. LOSER i hate him,hope he gets dumped by someone later in the drama. Ep2:the story is getting more and more better,love it chincha. LOL she somehow reminds me of song hye kyo from full house.
Now, i am looking forward to watch episode 3 and episode 4.
This drama can really make me feel very fresh and happy to look forward on every Friday and Saturday. In fact, with my character, i really like to watch romance, comedy, family drama.
OMG I already hooked to this drama. When I read the sypnosis it looks like very interesting and now after I watched the 2 episode what a freakin funny drama. Another tvn master piece. As expected tvn is the best in making romance comedy drama. Thumbs up! I know is early to say this but, congratulation again tvn and thank you for making this one.
Marriage not Dating fighting!!!!! So far I am loving this. One thing about TvN dramas is that being cable, they are not forced to stick to the usual sugar coated tropes so common in KBS and other broadcast dramas - they can be more realistic. And the grandma is a welcome change from the usual granny portrayed in so many k-dramas.
Yep totally agree with all positive comments above. No further comments beside you will know why you must watch it after see the first 2 episode. This was funny. Looking forward to the rest. Hope it continues to be as good as the first two episodes.
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Yun woo jin is handsome and han groo is pretty too. I really enjoyed watching it. This drama is like k-drama comfort food. It has all the elements we love in k-drama sans those we hate. Hope ure good too. Glad we have a common drama to watch. So agree with you we have everything here.
Love this drama;I really enjoyed watching it. This is the BEST drama ever! Its has some scenes that have never, ever been witnessed before in KDramaland which makes it refreshing and so exhilarating to watch again and again.
The 1st two episodes are unforgettable, to say the least. I like everyone selected for the roles in this drama. I look forward to episode 3. I really like this drama. The actors n actress are also very good.
Really like this drama,, the story is awesome drama. Yun woo jin and Han Groo is really match couple. Yun woo jin start tobe a great actors recent months. Cute drama so far, but not sure if I would want to marry the girl my best friend has been sleeping with at numerous hotels or anywhere for that fact. Sandy 2 - I kind of agree in one sense, but at this point she is being put up to his family as the worst possible choice, he expects her to get totally rejected.
But to be fair, this is also a subject that would never be brought up on broadcast TV - and is probably more realistic, even though awkward. I am an instant fan of gun woo jin and han gro, they look good together! Hope to see more of their antics and funny moments.
I like the mother of gong ki tae, i am guessing she will love the girl more than she will hate her and that I think the story will revolve just my opinion. I Love this drama. I just watching 2 episode and already falling in love with the story! All of you must watch it! Han groo is very cute and pretty and acts well too,lol jang mi sure has lots of strength to break the door knob. What would a kdrama be without a drunk halmoni getting rushed to the hospital, only to find out that she just passed out and is asleep.
Too funny! Yeo Reum, a sunshine handsome guy with kind innocent character will be good for Jang Mi instead of Ki Tae. Right now, this drama continues to be interesting as three guys going after Jang Mi. Ha Ha, hope to see that. Holy friggin fairy godmother, all the handsome Prince Charmings came to the charity ball, and at the end Cinderella dropped her slipper.
He meant that and his mother knew it. His mother also heard what teary-eyed Jang Mi said to Ki Tai about him being satisfied with her performance. The scene when Jang Mi picked up what appeared to be a dried corn husk and started hitting Ki Tai was too funny! I want to give two thumbs up to the writer. Though you know what is supposed to happen by the synopsis and you might think it you have seen this type of drama before, the flow of the plot is really original and unexpected.
Pretty refreshing. Every episodes brings in more emotional depth while being very funny. The attachment of the two seems very natural now.
Ep4: another funny and interesting episode. I thought she would get mad and not to anything for him when he yelled at her, instead she calls him a fool and worries about him.
Love this couple a lot,there no ego issues between them. He yells at her she comes back to check if he is fine or not. Awww cute. And is that money in the envelope??
I will be very disappointed!! Ki tae and jang mi couple for me too. So romantic. Lol and she thought that he hurt his head.
Haha Hope he falls for her first. I agree that this is another good drama from TVN. And will the writers make Jang Mi drink in every each episode? I like this drama! The Jang Mi character is hilarious. The story is well written so far, it keep you watching. I was wondering if the story is going a bit fast. Scared the writers give us too much now and not enough later.
Love the story so far will continue watching. Episode 4 had me laughing so hard. Woahthat slap. It pays to mind your own bees wax Jang Mi, especially after Ki Tae warned you. Before leaving, she gave Ki Tae a beat down.
But, halmoni took care of that, too cute. Another scene which I totally forgot to mention in ep But how?? Actually, unless a person injured their back, in reality its is very strong. I would really like to see the outtake of the behind the scenes after she took those three steps and put him down.
Her reaction was probably priceless. He is so handsome!!! So cute! Both of them get their chemistry. Waiting for ep 5!!! However, I was bored with no works so i try the first episode and i come to love Han Groo so much. And I start seeing Woo Jin characters here is so interesting and now i come to realise that he is handsome too. Ep 4 is really interesting especially I can see that KT is changing and he seems to develop feeling for JMbut he is still ignoring that feeling. JM also care for KT.
I love the hug. Any one notice in episode 4 that when Ki Tae yells at his family that Jang Mi is the only one he will marry and if it cannot be her, then he will stay single. The expression on his face was so sincere, except he does not know it yet.
I cannot wait for him to start getting seriously jealous of her relationship with the waiter guy. That should be pretty entertaining. I love this drama and I feel happy these days while watching very fresh dramas as fated to love youmarriage not dating and trot lovers. Woo Jin is a talented actor. Its just a character role, not reality. From my point of view, if an actor or actress made us dislike the character role they portrayed, then they really earned their salary for that role.
I just browsed and saw your post. Fan and I are on Trot Lovers drama, glad to know you guys are still around. I like this drama so far looking forward to our insightful discussions. This drama is simplyyyyyy good.
Refreshng drama not a single dull moment, the actors and actresses are all good. My impression on the lead actor was changed after his horrible character in When a Man Loves, think i like him now. So far, I love all the episodes! Overall, the writer did a great job!! Love this drama so much!! Hannah You are so correct!! The story sounds cliche, but the action is totally different. They look so cute together. Ep 5 really made my day. I love this drama. The scripts and plots and actors are great, and I cannot wait to see next episodes.
So far, from writing to acting, this drama is excellent. One of the best drama for me this year, love it, its so hilarious. Love the story line and the cast. Ep 5 was just too funny. Episode 5 and episode 6, again, given me some strange and funny laughing surprise. And towards the ending episode 6, the sudden kiss that Jang Mi kiss Ki Tae really made me very surprise.
The most interesting thing is, whenever Ki Tae checked his phone and searched for the location and movement of Jang Mi, he will sure find Jang Mi together with Yeo Reum. Why Ki Tae needs to worry and be jealous with Yeo Reum? I wonder where that beginning scene came from??
Anyone has the same question? I remember that the clothes all over the room in that scene were the exactly the same clothes both Jang Mi and Ki Tae wore that night. Jang Mi was out of his room that nite.
And the soup was still hot, too. Okay, the rice cooker could stay warm the whole night, but can the soup pan stay warm, too? She must have made it in a rush in the morning. But, why Jang Mi acted as if nothing happened? A scene was a scene hinting for something.
Not just yet. Ok, so, can YR just stop laughing for a minute. It can be annoying! The color of her pants blends well with her skin. Where everything has to be hush hush. Like how JM stepped in took over that whole situation by kissing KT. SA must feel like crap.
Darn, why is she so controlling? First she wants to demolish half his house then she want him to be a sperm donor, she spies on him,etc. I find her to be a bully. I love JM character, she is so ugsscthunder.cometentious and this drama embodies that.
No pretending! Everyone is pretending to be who and what they are not. Try joseon gunman guys!. YR needs to stop smiling!! But after watching ep 6, I hate it how he just simply asked JM to eat with him and smile and act nothing bad happened between him and SA.
I was like enough of the smiling already. Thanks again for the pics and the ated info on the drama. Give us more if you can. Hannah I felt the same way!! Again, someone is pretending. This is the most awesome rom-com I have ever seen, and I have watched dozens.
Scandal might be used to turn against dad to become President. No, stop the press! He needs to be thought a serious lesson. Why does the mother take such an abuse? Instead of wanting to control your son control your husband and his family. Look at all the work she has to get done for the memorial. What you guys think? You know what, he feels like he can cheat because his wife and family overlook his bull crap.
His wife was hiding from the mistress!! What kind of crap is that? The mistress is running around with her head up and the wife is running around with her head down hiding in the coat department and her husband comes home saying he had to stay at work overnight and give her his underwear to wash, so he can take it off for the next woman.
Something is wrong with that picture. SA just want GT seed right? They act like as if nothing happened in their family. I guess another reason why GT broke up with SA is because of his dad, he needed to keep his family secret. I mean, do you threaten your fiancee like that? Notice how every dark past GT have are all 3 years ago? I seriously want to know more what exactly happened 3 years ago. She blackmailed him to either sleep with her, or give her his sperm, crazy.
I do believe he slept with her while they were engaged, but they broke up because she is controlling, just like his mom. But darn it!! Stop smiling!! They became engaged and started living together, but SA wanted to wear the pants and GT was like ciao. I am not too sure about three years ago. Tania - she is so much in love with herself that she wants a baby but not the daddy. I guess so she can raise the baby to be another perfect jerk like herself. Hyun hee seemed more happy when jang mi was heartbroken, she seemed more at ease then!!
She dosent even want him back. Ep 7 daebak! Like seriously, KT was worried to death about JM, and ended up yelling at her? KT is definitely not okay. And for the first time in ep 7, I find Hong Doon somehow matured.
He always acted like a spoil brat before. JM had warn her, but, what she has do to her, aish, she is childish. Episode 7, good to laugh, Jang Mi really loves Yeo Reum. Cant wait for them to fall in love with each other, but I guess Jang Mi is going to take longer to do sounless something hurtful could happen to her relationship with ya reum.
But, watchthe poor thing will continue to be in denial. Not necessary to choose rich guy to marry, but, it must have good mother in law. I love Jang-mi with them both. This drama just knows how to be better and better every week!! The ending of ep 8 is another killer ending. I love how Jang Mi runs away with wedding dress.
It feels like a fairy-tale. I want to see the step-by-step changes in the mom, like how JM changes KT.
I somehow like it when JM goes to KT about all the expenses for the wedding gifts. Something is fishy about the infidelity situation. Hmmm, why does she gets so much play? GT want those lips! Damn, even when YR sleeps he smiles. That poor chicken and Ginsin stew. They turned a somber situation into a pleasant one. Ep 7 was funny and eye opening for a lot of people. Good luck!
JM look so under pressure abt this wedding. Hihihhilove every episode of this drama. The story is getting better and better. I must agree with your own judgement now.
And of course, our lovely couple. Jang Mi, Jang Mi! Ki Tae! She is really good portraying a sly fox with her really sweet face. I agree with you all, guysthe OST is really cute, too. I like it, I like it! Why are you standing there like a piece of wood? JM dint want to continued it all. Just watched ep7 and Hoon Dong i like him now for supporting Jang mi ki tae. How the hell did GT and YR end up on the coach?
Hahaha 2. A Doughnut seat!! So her butt could go into the circle, where she would be more comfortable. Ep8 was very funny! By the way, Yun woo jin is so handsome and hotttt, oh my goshhh.
But, in this Marriage not dating he still as handsome as in secret love, and i love this drama, i never watch tvN drama, cz i think most of them is bored, but after this drama is different, tvN drama is daebak. Keep the laughs coming! I think her drinking give the idea that she is ugsscthunder.cometentious. She drinks, eat like a pig, tell it like it is, give of herself and a kind nice person. While the others hardly ever drink, eat like a bird, and the most devious and unsympathetic.
I would rather the lush anytime. The more I watch this movie the more I hate it.
At first I thought it is kinda interesting coz the actress are good looking. Good story line about love. But the female character is getting bord and so easy girl.
At first she slept with the guy then She kiss and meet up with any guy. She is an easy girl. Go read this review, it might help you get it. They look like they get along really well off screen. Too cute. Linh i think this drama is worth watching, many people like this, you can check this thread, most of them really like this.
Yun woo jin and han groo is match and cute couple. Ji jin hee ahjussi is good actor to play the man. I just feel like if someone hates a drama there is nothing I, or drama land can do about that. Haters are going to hate no matter what and to each his own. I love, love, love this drama and ready for the next ep to air and no one can change that!! Watched eps 7 n 8. Ki-tae says uncomfortably that he wants to talk to her about that, and she offers to meet him at his office. Yeo-reum sits with Ki-tae and thanks him for ending things with Jang-mi now.
A prickly Ki-tae asks what it has to do with him, and Yeo-reum says that now he can date her openly. Ki-tae bristles even more, and Yeo-reum seems to take pleasure in detailing all the couple-y things he plans to do with Jang-mi and watching Ki-tae get flustered. Jang-mi feels bad and starts to tell Hyun-hee the truth, but is interrupted by a text from her mother. She finds Ki-tae at his office and demands to know what he did to her mom. Ki-tae says with satisfaction that he just did a teeeeny little eye surgery on her, no big deal.
He says they just have to block the family meeting. HAHA, is he planning to keep up the fake engagement to keep her from dating Yeo-reum? He pretends dismay when Mom points out that the family meeting is this weekend. Mom makes her swear not to mention she had plastic surgery, but Jang-mi says she has more sense than that. She says that she will take Jang-mi to do everything that needs doing.
They accuse each other of being rude and unmannerly, and Jang-mi goes to her room for some peace. She gets a text from Ki-tae asking her to come outside, and he shyly gives her a gift for her parents. She flounces out to the waiting room still in the drape, hee to protest her loss of dignity. Jang-mi protests again, but Mom just insults her dedication to the family and sails out with a smile. By the time she breaks free and joins him, the restaurant is closed, but he cheerily holds up a bag of takeout with a smile.
She asks for him to pay her back for the wedding gifts she bought, and a stunned Ki-tae tells Yeo-reum that she must want to marry him for real. Good-natured Yeo-reum invites Ki-tae to eat with them, but it backfires on him when Ki-tae and Jang-mi bond while planning how to deal with his mother.
HAHA, did he just hijack their picnic? Ki-tae bikes as far as he can, Jang-mi complaining the whole time, until he finally runs out of steam on a steep hill. He latches onto this - did Yeo-reum ask her to officially date? She admits that they have, and Ki-tae accuses her of being easy for moving so fast. Serves him right. Mom has already chosen a gown and literally shoves Jang-mi to the dressing room.
Jang-mi gets all calf-eyed when she tries the dress on, and has to remind herself that no matter how gorgeous the dress is, she has to stay sharp. Se-ah finds Ki-tae at the gym and apologizes for trying to trick him, but he refuses to even look at her. She says that she wants to make up and invites him on a trip to the beach, once again pushing just that one step too far.
Ki-tae just says that he hates crowds and leaves, accidentally leaving his phone behind. You know, I hate how manipulative this lady is, but I have to give her props for being good at it. Jang-mi tries calling Ki-tae again for a rescue, and Se-ah finds his phone where he left it at the gym.
She answers, and Jang-mi is desperate enough to tell her where she is. Next Yeo-reum texts Jang-mi to remind her that they were supposed to run away together. Se-ah meets Ki-tae at his car, returning his phone and telling him that Jang-mi needs him, offering to take him to where she is.
Ki-tae looks extremely wary, but Se-ah assures him that she wants to be on his side and holds out the memory card with the photos of Jang-mi and Yeo-reum. A more demure dress has the mothers worrying over the high price tag. Jang-mi flees out into the street just as Ki-tae and Se-ah arrive at the dress shop. Behind Jang-mi, the mothers come out and call to her.
Oh, that ending scene hurt so good. And nobody needs for her to do that more than Ki-tae. While I believe that people deserve respect no matter what, I can see why a person like Ki-tae would have a hard time respecting a girl who constantly acts like a doormat to get people to like her.
And you can tell that he wants to, because he calls her out on it every single time, getting more and more frustrated when she keeps letting it happen. Ugh, Mom. Up until this episode I had a lot of compassion for her, because she really is living a tough life. Your email address will not be published.
How could a drama be so damn funny yet so heartbreaking. I don't understand Why JM can't say: "I'm in the throne room. Let me call you back when I'm done. Can't just go shopping with you whenever you drop by. I'll meet you after work or on my day off. Sorry for double post. They'll come fix it 2 days later! That's Jang Mi also She likes interfering because she gets attention and makes her feel less alone because in effect she's needed. In this one it's shown she's needed by Gi Tae, her mom, her potential mother-in-law, but in being needed in so many ways and not being seen as herself, she's feeling even more isolated than before.
If the major theme of this drama is loneliness. That's why she went to Yeo Reum as supposed to Gi Tae. Gi Tae cut her off by showing up with Se Ah. She thought she was helping him out, but felt a pang of loneliness, jealousy, etc. She wants to be wanted, but she just showed up and decided what she wants more is to be accepted and loved. She wants real connection and Yeo Reum is giving that to her because Gi Tae's playground tactics and lack of directness isn't much different from Se Ah's.
So she showed real character change. She wants connection, not people to be just physically there. The theme is evolving nicely, isn't it? I was busting a gut from the start of this episode It's gone too far.
I was feeling so so so sorry for JangMi. Even though she brought it on herself And then, when YeoReum told her she looked pretty I darn near went through an entire box of kleenex.
We hear JangMi narrate that her idea of a wedding dress is for the guy to say she looks pretty when he sees her Up until now, the person who delivered quantum leaps in personal growth in this drama was Jang Mi. So, when I discuss her biggest weakness, it is not to disparage her but to measure just how far she has traveled since the opening of this drama. In my opinion, her biggest flaw or weakness or mental disorder, however you want to characterize it was not that she wanted to please everybody, but that she was incapable of understanding what everybody including herself really wanted or needed in the first place.
This is because she never saw things in the way they actually were but in the way she wanted them to be or incorrectly imagined they were.
As such, every one of her decisions without fail turned into a social disaster. This flaw was at the crux of her stalking saga against her first love and it is what propelled her into a series of faux pas with Gi Tae, who did not mince words as he criticized her no, make it character-assassinated her.
While she did not have a malicious bone in her, she was often the biggest ditz and most inconvenient pest in every social situation into which she injected herself. Indeed, for a lowly shop girl, she roamed high and low, only God knows how. And, for all we know, that is how she would been for the rest of her life. As they say, that was then. At this point in drama, she is turning into a dazzling swan, and she is not even half way through. It is Gi Tae who worries me.
He was, and still is, incapable of anything but cerebral interactions with others. Such a person manages his affairs with exemplary neatness and efficiency, but staying alone is the only way to maintain it. And he knows it, as he tirelessly professed that all he ever wanted was for the world to leave him alone.
As a hurricane known as Jang Mi is blowing through his core existence, he can go either way. I am guessing that the drama will push him in the right direction. I just don't know if the end result will be good enough or drama-worthy. But I am eager to be pleasantly surprised. She's not the type of person who can just bite her tongue when she sees injustice and she is someone who could recognize injustice from a mile away.
She will call it out, loudly occasionally with the support of some soju. It's a tumultuous way of being, but I think it's actually awesome and exactly what Ki-tae's family needs.
People who speak truth to power tend to alienate. They fight for others and they fight for themselves. Many people don't want to fight. They want a comfortable existence. Jang-mi is committed to living a truthful one, and I think that is spectacular. Her main problem as I see it is that she's not choosy enough about who she surrounds herself with. She needs a core group of people who love and appreciate her in all her troublemaking, emotional, truthtelling glory. She needs a close-knit makeshift family of people who will build her up for the very qualities that cause Ki-tae's mom to try and tear her down.
Ki-tae respected that side of her from the very beginning, but he's so terrified of giving up his carefully manicured existence that he's equivocating. She will be known, and that will be infinitely more satisfying than cycling through countless superficial relationships. Why not act haughty and turn her down every once in a while? And why must she pick up all the calls? She doesn't lack for a backbone-she stood up for herself in the first two episodes, she actually threw a fit because the mother was being ill treated.
She is willing to protect others, and stands up for herself and others. What she really lacks is confidence because she had a trauma where she was alone.
Jang Mi's disease is that she wants to help and be wanted. She wants to fill in that loneliness. Being alone feels like a disease to her. But she just discovered what she really wants is connection, and she isn't getting that from anyone in her family or close to her.
The closest approximate is Yeo Reum. Who is distant, but emotionally supportive and available, though his details are sketchy. And then YeoReum's response was so understated that I laghed even more.
That last scene was so powerful. And why are kdrama MILs so evil???!!!!!! I don't think KT's mom is inherently evil like so many MIL's - I think she is stuck so tight in her world view that she think it is the only "right" one, and can't get out.
Or she is afraid to I agree with you and, I may be on my own with this but I think KT's mom is actually the most layered character of the bunch. Unlike most Kdrama parents who are simply grabbing at power or control, KT's mom is different to some degree.
Really, she's very similar to Jang Mi. KT's mom is a woman that is trying to conform to her society in order to make those around her happy.
She masks her own feelings in order to accommodate those around her. She has no real identity of her own so she's wraps herself in the business of keeping up appearances because that's the only thing she can do. This is all very similar to what Jang Mi is doing by continuing the whole fake marriage.
Sidenote: its really great that both sets of parents are all alive in this drama. I've watched a ton of dramas and usually one parent is deceased. It really adds another layer to compare and contrast the couples' parents and their relationships to each. I really like how kt mom is methodically breaking down jang mi character. I'm not condoning her actions but it is a clever way. If I was with someone thay constantly only looks out for other people view of me and doesn't show any emotions to my actions I would feel left alone as well.
Jul 28, Marriage Not Dating: Episode 8 by LollyPip. The fake engagement is beginning to change from a little white lie meant to help Ki-tae and Jang-mi each get something they wanted, into a monster that's growing beyond their ability to control/5. Aug 01, Marriage, Not Dating Episode 9; Not Dating, Marriage Episode 9; Anticipate Marriage Episode 9; Gyeolhoneul Gidaehae Episode 9; Marriage Without Love Episode 9; Marriage Without Dating; Wealthy plastic surgeon Gong Ki Tae is a successful and happy bachelor who does not want to find himself a wife. He believes that his life is perfectly / Watch and download Marriage, Not Dating with English sub in high quality. Various formats from p to p HD (or even p). HTML5 available for mobile devices.
If people are saying se ha is like the mom then could u blame the dad for cheating. All we know is that he is but don't know exactly what drove him to thst point. Once u forgive someone that cheats they keep cheating. If you r willing to put up with the other persons action than the only one at fault is yourself. Hmmm I do agree with your point about the brilliant change in strategy of Ki Tae's mom. But I don't think it's right to blame her for her husband's infidelity.
Nor is it right to blame Jang Mi for Hoondong's childish ways. These men did or are doing terrible things done entirely out of their own autonomy. Why blame the ladies? I agree with Juliette. These men are adults, and at the end of the day should be able to take responsibility for themselves.
Again, why blame the ladies? I really like all of that about KT Oma. I agree that there is more than meets the eye. Let's assume that she is also very aware of how much her life sucks, and how correct JM has been in pointing it out. At the memorial service and at the mall. KT's mom cannot solely object to JM because of her socio-economic situation.
After all, the pres wife likes the crazy girl as a part of the family. KT's mom realized at the wine club that there may be some benefit to having JM around. I'd like to think that KT's mom's efforts in separating this lively happy person from her son is so JM doesn't end up in their stifled life. SA, whom KT's cheating dad picked to help his selfish career, has been asking for this misery.
So be it. She could also be thinking that JM is exactly what the Gong family needs if it wants to survive into future generations. Another SA leading them would bring them more suffering.
A vibrant JM may help. Juliette-people cheat all the time but its not like most people cheat just to cheat.
I disagree- I don't think KT's mother is acting as an antagonist for Jang Mi's benefit, so that she can protect her from joining their dysfunctional family.
I feel like she was touched by Jang Mi in some ways, like when she empathized with her after the typhoon incident. But still, she isn't a desirable daughter-in-law for her, from everything from her family background to her scandalous behavior and how she basically pales in comparison to Se-Ah, who's very desirable seeing as she has connections and a good family.
It'd be cute if Jang-Mi and the mother end up as close friends and allies later on, so hopefully the mother will finally explode at her husband and stop her manipulative ways.
Aug 02, Marriage Not Dating: Episode 9 by girlfriday. One overnight trip sends everyone's relationship status into turmoil, which shouldn't really be a surprise given how many ulterior motives are floating around in this love hexagon. I'd say the true miracle is that they even last 24 hours without coming to blows/5. Watch full episodes free online of the tv series Marriage, Not Dating - ?? ?? ?? with subtitles. Subtitled in Arabic, German, Greek, English, Spanish / Jul 18, Marriage without dating ep 1 (Ki tae & Jang Mi cut) 2/3 - Duration: Fearless Hannah , views. [ENG] ??? ??? .
I also disagree with many people's opinions that Jang Mi is actually in love with KT at this point, and that she was the one to fall for him first. In dramas, it's usually made very obvious if the main character is in love. And it's not made obvious that she is, at least not with KT. She's still smitten with Yeo-reum. I think she was saddened by KT's murmured confession that he just really, really wants to be alone when he was drunk, lying curled up the bed, because he just looked so lonely and it's the opposite of what she wants, but she understood it nonetheless.
And she's grown to care about him, though not in a romantic sense yet, so she wants to protect his wish. I'm also wondering how she's not fired yet for ditching her job all the time, and a bit iffy how she ran out in the wedding dress- I mean yo, that costs thousands, probably, and I was just thinking, "What if you rip it? What if you spill something on it? But yeah, I get that it's a drama so they want the pretty shot of her running out in her wedding dress, and the fact that it'd be very uneventful and boring if she just simply ignored all of her mother-in-law's phone calls throughout the episode.
Plus, that wouldn't fit her character. You wouldn't think so by how this episode ended. Only making others happy according to her own "high" standards. I also saw a thread of the irresistible pull that 'keeping up appearances' has over us. Before we know it, appearances suck us in and we start living lies to keep up what we've started.
We may not actually care what other people think, but we still want to perform well in the roles we've chosen.
yes i also looking for the new ost in ending of ep really like that song. omwo, i think many OST of Marriage not Dating are good & worth to listen! Ben- stop the love, Son & Danny - Just One Day, and latest one is this song Dane O_o Says: August 16th, at pm. oh i just found the ost in ending ep Marriage Not Dating. Watch Marriage Not Dating Episode 1 Eng Sub Online in high quaily | V.I.P #1: A perfect man Kong KiTae Yeon WooJin is forced to marry by his family but he doesnt to marry. To make his family give up he introduces a woman Joo JangMi Han Groo to them that they would never accept. Mar 25, Love and Marriage eng sub. Love and Marriage eng sub. Skip navigation Sign in. Search. Love and Marriage eng sub ep 9 Bruce C. Reye. Loading Unsubscribe from Bruce C. Reye?
I wonder if: KT's mom was simply working to conform JM to what they expect in a daughter-in-law, so her family can keep up appearances in their elite social circle. Because that's exactly how she's had to live her life. While KT's dad was keeping up the appearances of being a loving and attentive husband when in front of others.
Despite that when he's alone with his wife he's a self-centered jerk. JM's mom was desperately trying to keep up appearances in her hilarious attempts to make it seem that her family will fit into high society. And JM was trying to keep up appearances of being the dutiful daughter in law, even though she has no concrete plans of marrying KT. So true to life. If we're not careful, don't we all find ourselves progressively conforming to patterns of expected behavior, before we think through whether the outcome of those patterns will be a healthy one.
The only thing that came from that scene was kt hurt feelings from seeing her run away from him. I need more scenes of jus kt and jm. His criticism is harsh but she really needs to follow through with wat he says. True, but I think JM ran away from KT because after all she has been through that day he rocks up with Se-Ah, all buddy buddy after she had been so bad to them before. I wouldn't be happy either. Where are my manners??? Lollypip, thank you very kamsa for the great recap Friday, please come quickly I read the ending scene as Ki Tae saying "I'm ready to make this real" isn't 'go to you' cultural shorthand for a lover making a commitment?
And the one thing that leapt to my mind was I think he just decided that he could coast into it and everything would be fine. I can't wait to see the fallout from Jang Mi's mother who will correctly assume that Crazy Mom and Se Ah were trying to sabotage the wedding. Go, angry Mom, go! Unleash your fury!
I didn't read those as relieved tears at all but I can totally see it being a mix of the two. Shes upset that Gi-Tae didn't help her out or anything and was also part of the entire problem in the first place but also finally SOMEONE said something nice even if it's not the exact situation she wanted, and she just starts crying in frustration.
I like that the scene isn't concrete, I'm assuming the next episode will clear it up. I saw it this way too. Another source of frustration was that Se Ah implied that she and Ki Tae had slept together or at least are spending time together she picked up his phone, saying he was 'washing up. So Jang Mi must have felt incredibly betrayed. After all, wasn't she enduring the intrusive invasion of her personal life to spare him from getting stuck with Se Ah?
I think you guys are forgetting a very important reason she didn't wait for ki tai and for the crying; when his ex answered his phone, she said he was in the shower; I am pretty sure jang mi misinterpreted that evenif she knows that it was unlikely they were together like that, she was still probably jealous and hurt for suffering for him while he was with the ex.
If you look again - you can see the hurt in her eyes when she saw Se Ah. I am not sure that she recognize it as jealousy seeing that her body, social status, and personal taste were being criticized by Ki Tae's Mom and her own Mom echoing her shortcoming due to her own insecurities and her Mom's attempt to fit in with the wealthy and educated.
But is it just me I loved Ki Tae's comment to wait and he would come to her buuuuuut why did he stand there It was as if just saying those words made him realize that he was speaking the desires of his heart.
He has had several jealousy outings. How many dates have he blocked? The near accident trying to get to her in the hospital. Moving her to his private domain of security on an island of one. He is now lying to keep them apart I went and re-watched the tail end of the episode, and I think that the silent conversation went something like this:.
What is wrong with you? You weren't ever going to end this, were you? Did you think this was real? Eff you and your crazy-ass family! I have been wondering what it meant as well, although I do not have any cultural knowledge. I'll freely admit that I'm assuming, because I've seen something similar used in that context in other dramas. It makes sense to read it that way, and her reaction widened eyes as she realizes suddenly that KT had no intention of stopping the fake marriage bobsled to hell is appropriate for that interpretation, too.
Hiii lollypip I'm from India I have been reading your recaps Love your recaps. Thanks a lotttt!!!! This episode left me even more desperate for more episodes than last week!!! I loved this ending even if it certainly doesn't leave me feeling as giddy as the last episodes did. I think that this is such an important turning point for our leads though. I also think it's important that Jang-mi just does whatever she wants to do, not what other people tell her so as painful as the ending is, it also manages to be very satisfying at the same time.
I think what you mentioned about respect is very important and hopefully the next two episodes will focus more on the leads building that respect for each other and for themselves.
Go on, kids, get married and settle down in the seaside town! Let YR find work as a line cook, and live in a sweet little apartment! Let Ki Tae sort out his own issues! Not me - I actually dislike YR.
He seems extremely shallow. Part of that might be his acting, which I am not impressed with. To me, YR comes off as 'deliberately cool' - not putting himself out there too much in case he gets hurt. He's not as expressive an actor as the guy playing Ki Tae, but I think it works.
When I went back and rewatched eps, I did notice that in scenes with the three of them, Jang Mi's eyes are almost always following YR he is easy on the eyes, I must admitand her body language changes whenever YR comes over. Ki Tae will have to put some serious effort into it if he intends to make that fake marriage real - starting with not insulting her.
Given it's a Kdrama, the male lead will eventually sink my preferred ship, but I can dream. I went back to read some of the character synopses that were distributed. They all say that YR has an aversion to commitment which comes from being abandoned by his mom.
He had no intention of getting married, but he unexpectedly starts to fall for JM. Trust me, you are not the only one After this I NEVER want to see her in that family, no redemption is possible after the emotional abuse that everyone is complicit in - even her own mother!
Han Yeo Reum deserves some serious apologies for waiting and standing by her thru this madness and he puts aside his own annoyance after being ditched to smile and feed her takeout - best boyfriend ever! Gi Tae pales in comparison - last episode should have been the last straw with him to have it out with his mother but he takes his anger out on JangMi - No Way!
I'm totally with you guys!!! I love Yeo-reum and I think he's exactly what Jang-mi needs right now. I think he's the perfect rebound for her: he's hot, sweet, talented and will ultimately be OK without her once they break up. And who seems to as of now interest our heroine a hella lot more than the lead! As it is, I don't think that they would work out in the long run. If anything, the funny scene with Yeo-reum running around Ki-tae's apartment doing exactly the same thing that Jang-mi did her first time there shows how similar they are if they're fear of abandonment didn't give it away.
It was Yeo-reum that comforted her. She's been having a few horrible days of dealing with Ki-tae's mother and all Ki-tae, who should know better than anyone else how impossible it is to escape once the woman decides to control you, only offers criticisms and absenteeism. It's Yeo-reum who steadily waits for her and offers support. I know that once Ki-tae changes his tune, I'll be happy when him and Jang-mi finally get together and not just for the all-you-can-take plastic surgery her mom will be able to enjoy but right now that boy does NOT deserve our girl.
Go, Yeo-reum! Ahhh exactly what I've been thinking! I know that eventually KT and JM will be together, and as long as the relationship dynamic changes and, as was said, it includes more respect.
No, I don't think he's a forever soulmate, but he's certainly the right guy for her to pick at this point in the drama. KT, on the other hand, has been a jerk. I believe he'll eventually redeem himself, but at the moment he totally does not NOT deserve JM and I'm glad that she's not feeling the love back at this point.
He's got to earn that! You're not alone but definitely less than I thought there'd be. I think you guys will have a field day next episode. As will we all, 4 way hijinks are going to ensue. And a kiss maybe i hope not. When Ki-tae speaks, I get the sense that he's saying exactly what he wants to say, but when Yeo-reum speaks sometimes not always though it feels like he's thinking to himself "what does this person want to hear?
Now this is interesting because this is exactly why Yeo-reum is the right choice for Jang-mi right now. He knows exactly what she wants to hear, but it also oddly makes him feel very surface-deep for some reason. When Jang-mi and Ki-tae interact it feels like there's give and take there, like they're not afraid to say what they want to say.
I think that Ki-tae simply needs to learn a little more about saying and doing what Jang-mi needs once in awhile, instead of just saying whats on his mind. If he can do that though, I'm rooting for him completely. I think that's why I can't understand, and therefore like, his character. There have been very few moments where I felt like "Aha, there's his true feelings flashing through".
I don't know if this is a failing of the actor, a failing of the show, or a deliberate choice by the show, but it's making me pretty frustrated.
I understand the other characters not knowing his true feelings, but the audience is just as in the dark. Maybe soon he'll have a complete breakdown and reveal he is truly an infamous serial killer!!!
Muahahahaha Or you know, that he really loves JM or something Very well put. I think jm sees her dad in kt since his parents are outspoken to one another while kt family is hiding within themselves from being diacover. I see yr as kt dad because he is all surface.
While being harsh actually wants jangmi to come out for the better. Each meeting the have had there hasn't been any true conversations. With kt and jm they talk more about their deeper roots. I can't handle her with Yeo-reum much longer, so that last scene basically made me go fsjfkwoeifueoisfs. I think i lost about 10 hair strands there. Its not like I don't like Yeo-rum as a character, yes he's a bit charming at times but i have a feeling that he's not just that into Jang-mi, its like what he said a few episodes back that he's intrigue as to why are those guys interested in her.
Its like he's just testing the waters with Jang-mi. On Jang-mi's part as well, i think she's not really in love with Yeo-rum, he's just a breath of fresh air and she's having fun but not really in love because when she's with him, its like she's not her total self unlike when she's with Ki-tae. She's probably attracted to lighthearted, superficial men because of her parent's incompatible relationship. But what she hasn't fully realized yetis that a superficial relationship will ultimately end up being just as unstable and painful.
YR might be fun and all but she is someone that tries to go deep into relationships to me. There is sth that confuses me: Why can't she say: "I'm in the throne room. Let me call you back. Also: "I'm working now, and can't leave my post to go shopping with you.
Meet on my day off or after work. Why put up with All those "Jang-miiaa"? Beause she is JangMi. Right now, she is so deperate to please people that she doesn't know how to reject them and her journey to eventually being able to do that will probably be one of the main highlights in this drama's plot. I know right! I keep thinking they've forgotten that this is FAKE and that they want to end this marriage.
I don't understand why she's trying to please his mom when she should be trying to break up the marriage and lose her approval by being disagreeable. Don't buy the thermal mattress and tell her that you can't go to acupuncture!Marriage Not Dating Episode 9 All Kiss Scenes Cut
Tell her no kids! Get GiTae's mom mad! I just don't get her logic. So frustrated! Also, I don't mind YR at all, I actually feel bad for him because he's super sweet and Jang Mi keeps missing their dates and being a horrible girlfriend. Yes the actor isn't great, but based on the plot, the poor guy is totally getting shafted by JangMi. JangMi - stop playing the 2 guys and figure out what you want! Because that's not who she is.
She's a people pleaser. Of course for the sake of the comedy it's turned up to the next level, but there are actually people like that I know some of themso it's not like the whole idea of it is unbelievable. And it's not like Jang Mi is doing anything inconsistent with what has been shown to be her character.
I notice that you keep asking why don't the characters do this and why don't they do that The simple answer is because if they did, they would be different characters and this would be a different story.
And obviously one more to your liking. If a viewer is halfway through the show's run and they still can't reconcile themselves to Jang Mi being a pushover and Gi Tae being emotionally backward, then maybe it's just a case that this isn't the show for them. I think you are right about the "people pleaser" syndrome she has. And she does not realize yet just how crazy it can drive people around you.
Many years ago, in another life, I had a girl I was going with who was positively afraid of even saying what she liked or not - I never knew where she stood on anything, and it drove me crazy. That lasted less than 7 weeks. KT's mom has decades of manipulating experience, Jang-Mi has close to zero. But I think that Jang Mi is learning fast, at least I hope so. Thanks LollyPip! OMG SeAh is getting on my nerves.
I was so surprised when I looked her up. She is Jenny from God's gift. Regardless, though she needs to lose the "I am gonna keep using the flashdrive card to get what I want. I am getting to the point that I fast forward through her scenes when she's wallowing in self pity.
Sorry for this rant. Other than that, I love this drama so much. I cannot believe it is so funny. And, evolving very well. I can't wait for the evolution of that one cold open. Se ha hasn't had as much screen time but I'm not hating her character.
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If she was truthful and admitted that she was hurt it would be a different story. I would agree with you There isn't really any coming back from that, imo. I am loving this series the last scene broke my heart when she went to YR but I guess this is the first step she is taking and going with her heart. I just hope she realizes in the next episode that her heart is with GT as I cannot watch any more scenes with her and YR.
I dont know if they're fully in love or what, but they seriously care for each other that it's hurting me too haha. Gi Tae made quite clear he quite liked her from a few eps back and Jang Mi also worries about him. But when Ki Tae was taken aback by her beauty and feeling bad for the situation, and Jang Mi cried when she heard Yeo Rum instead of Ki Tae say the words, it's quite a done deal. I'm not losing faith in Mum just yet.
I dont know why but from the beginning i had this feeling - maybe she sees herself in Jang Mi that she wants to save Jang Mi from whatever hell the family has in store so that JM doesnt suffer like her.
Gaaaaah, Ki Tae saying he hates the beach but that's exactly what he does next episode when he chases after the bride and her runaway lover! In the beginning of the preview Hoon Dong is there too, but then we see Se Ah after that. Well, may not be quite the trip she wanted with Ki Tae, but it's something! Haha, I really hope she stops being manipulative and maybe she can just be a friend that makes KT realise that not telling your feelings for the sake of pride is no use.
Oh and if the episode is gonna be full of our leads playing the jealousy shenanigans, I'm soooo in. This is gonna be fun, cant wait till next week!!! I agree with you, diba. We may be misinterpreting her words and actions around and about GT and JM. Of all the characters, JM is the only one who tries to talk sense to her. JM's biggest weakness is she wants to understand and please everyone. She sees KT Oma as sad and lonely and wants to help. While JM lets herself be pushed around, when it gets to shove, she rallies and pushes back.
I loved the interaction, for example, in front of KT's house between them. THAT's the best reason you can come up with?
Not, that SA is a bright little thing whose company you enjoy? She IS pushing her out of the nest before JM has time to get hurt. I would love just an episode with only Jang-mi and Ki-tae in it. Put them in a room, and give me an hour of honest conversation between these two. That would make me happy and less seething. I really like this show, but I'm at the point of beyond frustration. We're halfway through now, and yet I feel no forward movement.
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Jang-mi and Ki-tae have not professed their feelings in fact, I have yet to see more recent signs from Jang-mi of her feelingshis mom has gotten worse sadly, and I agree that her character would be wasted if she continues down this typical mother-in-law pathsecond-lead guy remains uninteresting and ineffectual take him out, and I wouldn't even noticeand background characters have seemingly disappeared even resident bitch, Se-ah, had little screen time.
And I would've been fine with that ending scene if she hadn't just run off in the wedding dress. I get the drama of it, but it felt silly to me.
I totally jinxed myself when I said it couldn't lose steam. I'm feeling it, but I'm still hopeful that this second half will gear up and charge forward. The drama's funny as hell, and i'm loving the whole plot but really, i'm hoping for progress.
Plus, tbh if i'm in jang mi's shoes right now, i'll prolly not fall for Gi tae at all. That last scene was so painful to watch. I thought it was interesting to note than Jang Mi was doing fine in the wedding dress shop until she called Ki Tae to come help and got Se-ah instead, going on about waiting for him to wash up and whatnot.
I think that played a big role in that big question she asked "who am I doing this for? Then she runs out and there he is and she's "standing in front of the guy" and she realizes she desperately wants HIM to do or say something to make her feel better and they're having their moment.
And the mom duo I'm angry with JM's mom too come in and she just wants to get out of there. Then YR is there to be her escape and do more of the grand romantic gestures she wants from her love in theory but in reality it's not him she wants it from. I really can't wait for next episode. Great input. I thought those two scenes were important to jang mi breaking apart and jus running off in the opposite direction.
I like that when kt tells her to stand up she listens to his suggestions instead of always pleasing people. I can totally see why she ran in that direction. Gi Tae - argggh he didn't grab her! The fact Se-Ah can still come and go as she pleases, and climb onto his car YR - while his ever present smile is somewhat sickening, I can't say I immensely dislike him either.