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I recently came back from almost 3 weeks of vacation in Europe. I had a blast. Italy is out of this world beautiful. Everything is so clean and pretty. The architecture is stunning, people are beautiful, the nature is unbelievable. The food is sooooo freaking good. I overindulged on pastas and pizzas, whatever, YOLO.

Desperation is perhaps the problem that fuels this hassle of lechury. I agree with much of what has been written and would still be willing to give it a try. However after considering online dating and reviewing a series of possible sites, why is it that men most commonly are looking for women 10 or more years younger than themselves?

Further why, is it that men in age group still want to have kids? As far as I can tell men outnumber women on sitesis this real? Hey great post! Online dating, there are so many things wrong with it, its not funny. But you forgot to mention the part where you whole family finds out that you have an online profile somewhere and then bombards you with letters that include all the horror stories of online dating.

But hey i can only speak from personal experience. With that said, provided that you majorly filter out all the crazy, horny, old, fat, ugly people you should be fine. If you want to call it that. I did go on dates, but i made it really hard for them to get me out on one.

Ah, not a fan of the online dating world at all. Too much fantasy, not enough reality. Be whoever you want to be, and when you meet, bam, nothing there. More bad experiences than good for me, and I have tried a few of themI think the guy to girl ratio is so ridiculous that guys go right for the pounce sometimes. But they would meet someone if they walked away from the computer and actually tried something new in reality. Meeting sooner rather than later is a must. Always read the age limit on their profile.

Apart from the obvious, what can a 40 y. No thanks. I told E-harmony before I removed my profile that I would not buy shoes or anything else for that matter without being able to see what it looks like first and I am not starting now. I AM 46 YR. Ehy would i want to pay good money for more of this. Online dating sites are just empty voids. I did not hear from him ever again and i found out that he had gotten a girl pregant and gotten married around the time that we we talking. That was my epiphany moment to say that I would never do online dating again No matter how vunerable I may be feeling.

I agree about online dating sites. I have refused to try E-Harmoney or Match, because. My philosophy always has been, and continues to be. I personally think online dating sites are for. Fortunately, this site allows you to shut down and close out your account. Which I will be doing soon! Technology has definitely made for weird relationships.

I had a friend who was in a relationship for 9 months and the two never once talked on the phone.

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Everything was arranged via text. Is it much of a wonder that it did not work out? My experience with dating web sites is somewhat different. The profile of the one guy who caught my eye was intriguing so naturally I became interested in getting to know this guy better.

I wanted to meet him in person first in public of course because I feel more comfortable that way.

I could see where there could be grey areas but even if there were red flags flying in my face, I chose to ignore them. Tried to contact him at least one more time to no avail a few days later after disappearing. I was just casually getting to know the person. There was something going on in his life at the time but I remained a listener even though I had suggested a solution before he shot it down.

The internet is a great place, but not so much for insecure people - both men and the women they date. Everybody likes music, and art, and traveling, and the outdoors, and sunshine, and having fun. These are not things that give any insight as to who you are as an individual. If anything I view the vaugness as a trap into buying a lemon. Dating in the New Millennium. Advice: Do men like it when women make the first move? And how much interest should I show? Share this WomanlyAdvice on March 30, at am.

Eryn on July 31, at pm. A good point is a good point. Why do people have such strong aggressive opinions. Why cant people agree to disagree and be civil. Bunch of savages. Sad to see so many haters but i do ununderstand what your saying after working in bucharest romania for 2 years and yes the traditionals roles of men and woman are how it is in most of europe but if what your writing are your experiences it seems like you have clearly not been around the right men i actually dont know anyone in montreal that has been bothered by a girl not offering to pay on the first date.

Stop pretending men and women are the same. In Russia, the sign of respect is learning things about each other for a year before the bed squeaks. Or maybe the woman is not really what she plays to be. Different mentality. Who are you to tell that this must be like this, and this must be like this!

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Also, you keep comparing America to Europe. And HOW exactly it is in Canada? Ever wonder if Canada truly has a face? What does Canada have? A moose? This is a hilarious article. If opening doors is the pinnacle of male achievement in a relationship, then you have very odd standards. What I care about is if he shows support for me: cooking and cleaning when I have a busy time at work, such that I can come home and relax, listening to my troubles, offering helpful suggestions when I have an issue to solve, going out of his way to drive me to work when the weather is bad.

Also, having traveled in Europe extensively, I would strongly dispute your assertion that everybody there is one way and everybody in Canada is different. Firstly, yes, European and Italian men in particular are raised differently. Secondly, yes, chivalry is more important to them. Feeling feminine might come from having someone hold a door for you or from cooking a meal for a loved one, but it can also come from everything that makes you a women. Wearing a skirt, having sex, putting makeup or just feeling your curves fill out an outfit.

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Your gender is a mental thing. The only important thing is really the way you feel and how you consider yourself. Gestures of affection in couples are important, but I do not believe they should be according to gender, but rather to how you and your partner feel and your mutual talents.

Look at these bones! Look at these postures! The Mr. Bigglesworth of modern time. Seriously, they disgust me. The right hand can be a tad more useful here than just for putting two fingers deep in when you see one naked. Can I point out how ignorant and rude you are? Who do you think survives in rough climates and life conditions?

Once you take a look at it, you will see that, evolutionnarily speaking, you are defeated. You have to find yourself a psychiatrist. Good luck with science.

Jan 22,   10 Things I Hate About Online Dating. a list of cliche things women put in their profiles. 1. The Interests. Everybody likes music, and art, and traveling, and the outdoors, and sunshine, and having fun. These are not things that give any insight as to who you are as an individual. If a young guy wrote an article entitled "Things I hate about dating and relationships in Canada: women don't cook and clean for me!", I bet even you'd be . ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????? 13 Things Canadians Do Differently When Dating [ ].

I very much agree with Irina. On the upside, in many cases men are more likely to do all these nice gestures such as door opening if they feel the desire to be a gentleman, and that desire does not occur with every women thats out there. Hi Irina, I am quite happy to read this article, since we are able to share thoughts, even if they may be quite different.

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French is my mother tongue, so please excuse the level of written grammar. I know couples where she earns much more money than her husband, and in return, he takes care of the children more often. I also know women who had to give up their careers since the husband got a high paying job in another location. I am personally happy to have the freedom to make my own choices, as a person, and also as a girlfriend.

I personally would rather share chores at home and open my own door in return. I found it quite fun to learn how to fix things around the house. And my partner is becoming a better cook. But these are are own decisions. If all, I feel more secure about my personal decisions. So thank you for not censuring your thoughts and sharing your opinions. I loved this article and it is exactly what I stand by in my channel. Do you live in Toronto by any chance? Would love to have you in for a video.

That is totally true! And I keep hearing this from my girl-friends who originally moved from Europe. Even when you compare that to Russia, North America culture just overcomplicates these simple things.

Guess what? Russian tradition with women: control them and maybe a beating here and there just as I know in old countries. Guess this is ur life lesson on learning to grow up! Time to start rethinking before u have to follow up with a video. Learn to accept criticism for once. Of course taking care of each other is the basis of a relationship.

If one of the parts is more talented in cooking they may cook more often, a lot of men are very good cooks! I encounter a lot of individuals of Semitic lineage who seem to scold any Soviet idea or principle. Those who read a tad of their own history would know that the individuals of Semitic lineage prefer radical freedom of action over the less capable in order to assume prime positions worldwide.

Their mind is sharpened for practical thinking, which created a perfect much with the North American biomass assimilation, mashing culture, ethnicity and religion into one single monotonic sod. The cost of all this is conventional freedom, of course.

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At least understanding it is the first part of understanding how the USSR worked and venturing into a clear insight of the Eastern Slav mentality. It is how you educate your men. Their behavior is the outcome of how we women treated them. If one wanted to be treated like a lady, then be a lady.

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If you wanted to be treated as an equal well I guess you know the answer. Sometimes women is at fault, we wanted equality then we resented it obviously. Visit Asia, where I am from, where you can still find great numbers of gentlemen who will be gladly showing you true acts of chivalry.

I once went on a date with a girl and she argued the entire time who was going to pay for who I told I was going to pay for the both of us she did not want so I could not stomach it so I told her actually I am not hungry and guess what, she went and ordered me something just the same was a little mad but I did not want to insult her either but then finally near the end I actually got to pay for something so I was very content with that.

It has nothing to do with being rich or poor I think even if the woman is a multi-billionaire the man should pay. See I was taught also when you take woman out for dinner your to 1.

Pull out the chair for the woman and push it back in for her 2. Help her get her coat off when she arrives and on when she is about to leave Depending on the season if she was wearing a coat or not. Men have been continually told we are as a gender abusers of women and are all potential rapists. Woman regrets drunk sex? Man raped her. I have been glared at for opening a door for a strange woman; almost stopped doing it - now I do it equally for both genders.

I will help them with heavy things but will make sure they know they are not my physical equal. Puts things into perspective for them. I love this article. Why do you think one trip to Italy makes you an expert in European conventions between man and woman. In Scandinavian countries and The Netherlands to name a few it is the same as in Canada. And ones she has decided to pursue her own carreer it is quite unfair to expect her to work a 40 hour job and do all the household tasks while her hubbie is watching TV or goes out with his palls.

If your hubbie is objecting against taking part in maintaining the house let him hire a cleaning office.

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There are enough people who are happy to do it for you. Hi Irina, I have gone through some of your articles today and now I sit here in complete awe at your skewed worldview. Much like yourself, I was born in Eastern Europe and grew up in Canada.

Our semblances end there. It makes me wonder what kind of a rock you have been living under for the last 25 years of your life. One that apparently has a juice bar and Instagram. So when I read this, I thought about how for every day I set out to make something more of myself as a young woman working in a male-dominated industry, as a boss, a leader and colleague to many, a friend, a girlfriend, a daughter, you can write a few lines and completely reverse us decades in time.

Women are multi-faceted, just as men are, because we are humans: complex forms of life that go beyond our appearances. Your view of the world seems very narrow, especially for someone who claims to be as well traveled as yourself. I hope, for your precious sake, that you are able to learn and grow and contribute to this world in a greater form. Your expectations for men are very high, yet you have lowered your own expectations for yourself as a woman.

Take it? Anyone else noticed that Irina and Shadiac is the same person with the exact same style? She created Shadiac to support her ideas in the comments. Let me say, this is a very interesting article and I fully agree with you with the general consensus regarding chivarly in European men. For the record, I am from southern France, lived in Canada for the majority of my life and spent every summer in France since I was about 6 years old. Let me tell you what, I have had such a wonderful experience with women down there; they are easy to talk to, open and extremely confident.

I feel like Canadian girls are not nearly as open minded with men and are rather conservative. I did read your article about dating European women, and this is where we will disagree; French women are WAY more adventurous and will never be shy with their sexual desires.

Canadian girls are very shy about sex and romantic topics. I feel like women here in Canada do indeed take simple gestures, like the ones you mention above groceries, doors, etc.

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Lets face it, both here and in France there are douchebags, and yes I do have guy friends in France who are HUGE assholes to girls, but will always hold the door, pay for dates and pamper females. In Canada, that mix of douchebag and chivalrous does not exist. Whether we like it or not, we are divided in a hierarchy of classes, often given to us by birth not that it means anything, it is just a fact and I do not mean to degrade anyone, this also does certainly NOT mean wealth, class and wealth have NOTHING to do with each-other.

If we look back at the nobility era, it was Queens and Princesses who were pampered and treated with the most respect. They were the ones influencing the Kings and they would never get their hands dirty.

In higher orders and noble societies, mal-treatement of women is very rare. If you take a look at lower classes of peasants, crooks, theives and scums, mal-treatment of women is much more prominent. Royalty and social-class never played a large role in Canada, I cannot blame them for not understanding this concept. It definitely has been something brought down from generations and can say it lives within several of my French friends, too bad Canadian women react negatively to such treatment.

If you want men to care about you and help you. If you want this change than take it up with feminists. Men are sick of being blamed, being ridiculed. My boyfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago. I just could not picture my life without him. My name is Catherine from United States.

I am married with two wonderful kids. My husband and i have been married for 10 years and we were such a big happy family. I knew once that something had gone wrong. I hired a private investigator that cost me a lot to help monitor his moves.

Sadly,i was told he has was seeing another woman. It turned out right to be what i was thinking. But on one faithful day i caught them red handed and that moment my heart stopped for a while as i bust into tears, because i really love him so much that i can do anything for him.

I have never seen in his eyes so much hatered before, to the extent that he will have to cheat on me. He was asking for a divorce but i wanted my man back because of the love i have for him. So i had to delay the process to buy time for myself so as to figure out a way to get him back. On a good day i stumbled on an article of how a boy got his girlfriend back after she broke up with him through a spell caster.

I contacted him via email i saw on his website. His English was not so clear but he helped me. But not for free. I did as he instructed me. When he claimed to have finished whatever he was doing i personally appreciated him by sending him some money.

He said those enchanting words he gave me will make my husband see the demon in his new lover and its going to make him hurt badly.

All what the spell-caster had said began to manifest. He literally confessed that he hated her all of a sudden. All what this great spell caster called Dr Kareem Jida that uses only this website: which is w w w. Without thinking twice i had to forgive and accept his plead, because i him so much.

My husband is back home and living happily now and he is as faithful to me and as a saint. So glad that finally someone just said it. I am a Canadian but have lived abroad for some time now. And by default of work travel a lot back home and internationally.

European men or those who are more well-traveled ie. And to all the rude commentators, this is a blog and Irina is simply expressing her opinion as am I. There is no need to attack her and make comments about her that have nothing to do with the topic at hand. I know exactly why you feel this way. Thump up! I am Eastern European man living in Canada and I fully agree with your point of you.

The problem with Eastern European women Is that they mostly rely on their looks which fade away once they turn 30, this is exactly why they need to get married before 25 while they still can sell their looks for a fancy future. Simply an act of prostitution. You know why they want a man to pay for all the time? Cuz most of them have never worked in their life and have not earned a single penny.

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Another guy said it great too. He said the author brought us back 40 years. Though, my experience is limited to the cities and suburbs. My friends from out East would perhaps, hook up with a random girl, but ultimately do want relationships. Actual relationships too, not merely flavour of the month or year. Still, though, women are either put on a pedastal or just used for the most part. They are insanely politically correct too. Like another commentator said here, I save my kindness for non-Canadian women.

The men are so screwed up in this country because they learn that there is no point in being polite. I find that at least American girls have respect for themselves and have some sort of principles. They may like you for who you are. Reading this made me lose brain cells.

This was dumb. But I also agree with some of the people here saying that Europe is not Russia. Allow me to explain. You are right about feminists, but Europe has them too. Women here I live in Europe, or Holland, to be more specific are very rude towards men.

I really love Russia. Hi Irina, I recently shared the video of you and my friend Dave. I am sure like some of us he is an exception to the rule s I agree with your post most man are like in your post and woman to.

The role of each other in the couple has been lost and I saw the same thing as you did in Vienna, Budapest, Lviv and Kyiv.

In fact, I almost see myself more with a woman from Europe as I like to do these things for them and the simple thanks or just the response to flowers makes you feels. I am sorry to Canadian woman as I said there is exception but my experience lead me to believe my destiny will lead me to a special and wonderful Ukrainian woman. Anyway, hope to meet you while you are here with Dave and I enjoyed the video it is amazing and well done :.

I guess you should be a very busy person, but I really need your help, please let me know if you have few time to give some advices and opinions by email about something personal. I am married with real french Canadian men, but myself I am real east european women! My husband told to me very early in our relationshipWhat I love about you. So that the important part of this message. And so, you will finde in Canada some who are half men, who want you pay your bill, but my self I dont know anyone around our friends.

Maybe its also a new generation? And in the endI dont belive that there exist perfect peopleso also my husband was notbut with my patience to learn him how to treat women, how to spoil hear, and so onwe are doing wounderfull! I learning thigs, what canedian woman before me did not learned to him!

I have live in past also in ItalySo I could give a good comparision about italian mens against canedian. And canedian men would win, since I have met my love from canada and he is a treasure!

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In fact no italian man helps old women for example. Italian man are just good at fooling stupid girls and talk talk talk so you feel special, open your legs and then they run to brag. I also traveled to different countries. My experience related to Russian and Ukrainian girls is that they are extremely romantic and believe in the ideal date, the ideal man, the ideal wedding.

If their English is proficient shallow discussions with them are not to be expected, better be ready to discuss deep topics. The Russian culture is more conservative, one night stands are not as common as in North America in Russia of course any Russian that travels will look for some fun, as for any culture. Family is really important.

I would say girls have more self-respect than in North America becausemy conclusion is that Russian girls are proud to be women and show it and to be treated as such, in a conservative way.

I met Moscow lawyers and business women more career oriented than many Quebec and north American women. Sorry I meant self-respect in the sense that they will not degrade themselves or do what they find degrading in the anglosphere culture. Of course Russia is a huge country with many different ethnicities; Russia is also westernized in a way and you will find a lot of different girls.

Well, today, I can finally see how uninformed. Anyone who has ever traveled cannot deny this as you will see other cultures are much happier than we are here in Canada in numerous ways lets start with family. Debt, rampant here destroys creativity and relationshipsno need to say more. But point is feminism or anyone who wants to oppose of this belief before you argue, first travel and no, not to a resort for a week go submerse yourself in real culture and see how happy everyday life is and how a man is allowed to express his energy as a man and a woman is allowed to proudly be feminine.

Happiest couples I have saw are people who have had fulfilling careers and love one another and not just social gender roles but biologically understanding their body is of their gender and they should be proud with what they have.

I believe in equal respect, no man is better nor woman but, be proud of your gender. Canada has totally sabotaged this in about every way and has so many people confused about their gender which destroys the natural selection process and irritates mental health and its evident; Canada is a land of mediocre and political correctness that has destroyed this country from this inside out, it has killed traditional family values as well as our innovative engine as a country I sincerely feel bad for men in this country as society stones any man here for being ambitiousintellectual, masculinecultured.

Coming from a masculine Canadian guy whom is educated and ambitious nothing is more attractive than a happy, cultured, adventurous, feminineintelligent woman who hates small talk and skips right to computer science or the cosmos in a convo.

So accurate and very intelligent answer. I agree with so many of your observations. Keep it going! Your writing style needs work. Guys treat foreign women like crap in Europe so hold your white princess asses until you find a man to wipe it for you.

Man and woman are equals but different in their own ways. So i should say a man should help out a woman in lifting weights and woman is the only one who should take care of their kids and taking maternity leave.

There is nothing sexy about a guy holding broom and doing dishes just like there is nothing sexy about a woman doing woodworking on barn door while at the same time man is doing dishes wearing an apron. If woman expect a man to pay the bill and open door of car for them than man expects his woman to make a delicious meal and clean up dishes.

They are not respected and still expected to open doors and do laundry, cooking and be a bitch. Here woman can shout out loud on a man or even slap him and he is expected to be quite and respectful BUT when a man shouts even once than everybody will call him aggressive and by any chance he slaps her for fucking or cheating equivalent situation.

Hez not going to get respected here he still has to go broom and mop the floor anyways. Once i went to a bank with my wife to open her bank account and employee asked her if she wants me in the room for details it is right to do so because its her bank account and she said yes. Well, there is equal rights and there is feminism. I agree with you that men in non north American countries are different. Because even there has been a lot of movements from feminism side has been pushed over them, they have resisted it and have not given up, because we all must have equal rights but we must have our differences.

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A man needs to take care of his woman to feel like a man and make his woman feel like a woman, and a woman needs to act like a woman in order to feel like a woman and make his man feel like a man. Stop confusing nature of these two. Great article!!! Since Brazil was initially colonized by Portugal and a lot of other European countries after that, we havea very similar culture.

I have a lot of Canadian male friends, and they do treat women equally in a bad way. It sounds to me like a retaliation to feminism.

Canadian men openly say that women asked for equal rights, so now they should be treated as men, which I absolutely disagree. I believe women progressed immensely when it comes to legal rights, but also lost a lot in human relations. I believe it will take a few generations to find a middle ground, where women have equal legal rights but are still treated as nicely as a women should be treated.

Here here sister! Now for those of you who got offended that she is man bashing. Just no.

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There are heaps and heaps of men out there just doing the bare minimum and not understanding the value of women. European men are taught to respect women from an early age, women are what bring children into the world.

They are who nurture the men and support them to be the best they can be, help them to figure out their emotions and generally are the yin to the yang. A guy can act like all the others and treat women like dudes, some women may want that, but ultimately if you like a woman, you should be treating her better than any other guy. Respecting his space, respecting his needs, having his back. This is just how humans should treat each other in general! Similarly, we men love it when women cook food for us, not because we think you are our slaves, but because we love your feminity.

This is a win-win situation for both of us, so why not let it be the way it once was. Before you stereotype me as a misogynist, and her as a bimbo, consider this, the American media has done an excellent job in brainwashing people into thinking that Hillary Clinton would win the US election, but Donald Trump won, right?

Do keep in mind, media always focuses on those news which have a lot of spice. Of course some journalists are good, but bad ones also exist. And you know who makes it to the news majority of the time. Just basic good manners. Why women want to be like men here baffles me. They seem to want to emasculate men to take their place. I am a woman by the way.

And pay and honor a ladies time. With no expectations. They have gotten over feminism thrown at them and confused. In the old school gentleman ways. And boys here have just screwed up so bad even in life with honoring Thier word Intergrity so much stuff. They want equality and be equals but women they they want that. To be strong role models. And be gentleman is to honor and respect women.

And have family morale values. I know I still hold many jerks and moms boys and sit them down. And be thought how to honor women and serve Thier purpose from Thier heart.

To be honest ever since I lived in Ireland for three years, dated a number of Irish women, a few Polish women, Norwegian, Spanish, Nigerian, Kenyan Welsh and a Russian lady, I could not be asked to date a Canadian woman. I remember walking away from a Canadian woman at a date because she was so boring. Now I long for Europe, but my consolation prize is that Canada has a lot foreign women about due to the influx of immigration.

Even though men behave like what you wish, all of the latin women want to marry a Caucasian Canadian. I have been to Europe and men are as cold as Canadian. Irina Tee in Love. Monday, June 15th, Saturday, May 21st, Canada Dating Lifestyle Love Relationships.

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